The United States as I know it is changing before my eyes. The events in the last week or so have been disheartening to say the least. Literally, I had to sit at my computer today and tell myself to GET FOCUSED.
Are you feeling like me right now? There is an inherent sadness with some many people right now that all of my clients are now calling me with the same issues. Does this sound like you?….
- Are you unable to get focused?
- Do you feel overwhelmed by all the things you think you should be doing to grow your business?
- Do you compare yourself to other coaches?
- Do you have fears and blocks that are keeping you from showing up in your full truth?
- Are you overworked and stressed out with nothing to show for it?
Raise your hand if any of those struggles resonate with you. I used to feel this way too! Growing your business doesn’t have to be a struggle, though. I am so not a fan of the “hustle harder” mentality.
You only do work that brings you joy.
You are completely confident in your offerings, prices, and ability as a coach.
Your self worth is rock solid and self care game is on point.
You confidently and boldly shine your light.
You hear your intuition loud and clear and are a manifesting queen!
You effortlessly attract AND sign your dream clients.
Sounds amazing right? This is my reality now, and it can be yours too. How?
GETTING FOCUSED on a MINDSET SHIFT.
Here a few mindset shifts I made that made a major impact on my business:
Be open to seeing yourself differently.
If you’re reading this, you’re probably going through some sort of transition, whether it’s in your life or your business. When you’re embarking on a new journey, it can be hard to focus on possibility over fear because you are only basing your view of yourself off of your past experiences. But here’s something to remember: YOU ARE NOT YOUR PAST. You are whatever you choose to be now. In order to change, you have to be open to seeing yourself differently and embracing the person you’re becoming. Release your past, forgive what needs to be forgiven, and focus on moving forward. Because this is the truth: You already are the person you’ve always wanted to be. You just have to remove the BS that’s keeping you from seeing that. Something simple you can do to start that shift immediately is to say the mantra “I am willing to see myself differently.” Any time you have doubt or fear about your ability to be successful, simply say “I am willing to see myself differently.” It will amaze you how quickly this works.
Then act “as if”.
This is different than “fake it till you make it”. I’m definitely not telling you to lie about anything (especially since I’m all about keeping it real!) Acting “as if” is all about OWNING your confidence, vision, truest self, and empowering energy. It’s about valuing your self/time/offerings and projecting that value outward. Do you feel like a fraud because you don’t have as many clients or as much money as you desire? Let that shit go! Your success has nothing to do with this and everything to do with how you feel about yourself.
Start acting the way you want to feel and you will become that.
Always follow your joy.
And when you do, your work won’t feel like work.
Look, you don’t have to hustle and work harder to be successful, and you don’t have to do things you don’t want to do. I’m going to bust that belief right now. The Universe WANTS to help you. It WANTS things to be easy for you. LET IT BE EASY. There is no “right” strategy or business plan to follow, so if you’re struggling and overwhelmed (which means obviously the shit you’re doing right now isn’t working for you), it’s time to take a different approach.
When you want to get focused, promise yourself that you’ll worry about the issue extra hard later (or now). Pick a time block to worry about it. Seriously. If you do this, you’ll probably “get” how worrying doesn’t accomplish anything. Worrying is doing nothing in a way that makes you feel like you’re doing something
For the next two weeks, only do 1-2 things for your business that bring you a lot of joy, and see what happens! Dance. Meditate. Get creative. Use social media only when it’s fun. When you’re feeling joy, that’s your intuition giving you a thumbs up, and your intuition will never steer you wrong because that’s one of the ways the Universe speaks to you. Joy makes you feel lighter, and this lightness will help you release the controlling energy you have on your business and invite flow in. This authentic joy is where attraction marketing begins. Attraction marketing IS A THING. It’s working for me, it works for my colleagues, so I know it can work for you too.
If you are looking for a coach to help you put these ideas into practice and completely transform your mindset and business, hit me up for a free 25 minute call. Let’s see how we work together! I only have space for two more clients this month, and I want one of these spots to be yours!